We bought our first home in 1993. It was 1800 square feet and we paid it off in just seven years. Not bad — I thought. Both my husband and I were working and once we got serious, all of my paychecks went to paying off the house. But over time, things changed. We had two babies 18 months apart and we began to feel cramped, and then our area was re-districted into a less than desirable school district. So after ten years in our home, three without a mortgage, we bought “the big house” including a corner lot, with a pool in the back.